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DP #3: Vegetarianism July 15, 2007

Posted by Partee & Nee Mole in Deep Poo.
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If vegetarianism helps you to stay slim then explain to me cows.

On Racism July 14, 2007

Posted by Veekid La Maa in General News.
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Ms. Veekid La Maa has always been against racism.  Being Asian herself, she has had her share of being labelled as “cheap” and “always on a hunt for a bargain” just because she was Filipino or worse, an “idiot” because she was somebody who wasn’t born or raised in Canada. 

Prior to immigrating in Canada, she has never experienced racism before. It never actually occurred to her that racism still existed, especially in the city where she lives where the majority of the population is from Asia, South America, etc. and the minority of the population is, surprisingly, caucasian.  Most of the people that live here claim to be proud that their city is multi-cultural and diverse. Are they really? 

One time, while riding the skytrain, Ms. La Maa overheard some women from her native country talking in hush tones in her native language about a person of another race sitting two seats away from them.  Apparently, that particular person was dressed inappropriately for someone of their age.  One of the women blurted out, “It’s just because she’s (insert race here) that she dresses like that.”

 Or, when Ms. La Maa and her husband got in to an accident, one of her friends asked her “Were they (insert race here)?”  With an eyebrow raised, Ms. La Maa told her friend that they weren’t.  Her friend was surprised and said, “Well, everyone knows (insert race here) are bad drivers.”

Excuse me?!  So, if you’re (insert race here), you’re immediately a bad driver or if you’re (insert race here), you’re immediately…well, pick an adjective.

Why is it that people need to label other people just because they come from a culture different than that of theirs? Why are we caught up with stereotypes or generalizations? To feel superior? We laugh at other people because they pronounce words differently than we do, or if they have a funny accent. We roll our eyes or make faces when we see people from other cultures eat food that we normally wouldn’t eat. Does it matter? Does it affect you directly? If not, then leave it alone.

Having different cultures make us unique. If everybody had the same values, the same traditions, wouldn’t it be monotonous?  There would be nothing more to discover, nothing more to learn about.

Moreover, do you not care that you’re hurting other people’s feelings? Yeah, they may not understand it because they don’t speak your language, or that you’re talking in hush tones so that they won’t hear but what about the people that can understand it? The people that can hear it? They’re affected by it too.  

So, think…the next time you want to blurt out something bad about someone of a different race, think about how you would feel when you hear someone say something bad about you. 

Dear Auntie So Shall: Why doesn’t he call? July 13, 2007

Posted by Auntie So Shall in Dear Auntie So Shall.
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Dear Auntie So Shall,

Help! I have recently split up with my boyfriend of  6 years and now I am interested in someone new but I’ve been away from the dating game for so long that I have no idea what to do! This new guy asked me for my number but after I gave it to him, he never called. Do you think he is already married and that’s why he hasn’t rung? How can you tell if a guy is already married or not anyway if he isn’t wearing a ring? Or do you think maybe he just asked for my number without ever having the intention to call? My friend thinks he might’ve asked me for my number just to see if he could still pull it off but I think I value your opinion more.

I’m not really looking for a relationship at the moment, but this guy is sort of cute and I would like to get to know him better. And Auntie…if he doesn’t call by the end of this week, should I contact him again or should I just forget about him??

Newfound Freedom Grandma

 


Dear Grandma,

Assuming you’re a young lady full of potential and not bad-looking, why aren’t you playing the field instead of moping about for this one man? Auntie So Shall thinks that if you can email and write Auntie So Shall a letter full of pondering questions, then you should be out there drinking Cosmopolitans in a bar surrounded by handsome young men and not be wasting time with questions. Grandma, Auntie So Shall likes the nice quiet life but if Auntie was in your shoes and just got out of a six year relationship, Auntie wouldn’t be moping around alone at home or just alone, wondering why ONE man didn’t call back.

But if you really want an answer to your last question, Auntie So Shall would advise getting out of your house and calling the guy you think is cute (and other guys you think are cute) back, and just really should be enjoying your newfound freedom.

Attachingly yours,

Auntie So Shall

 

**Dear Auntie So Shall written by Auntie So Shall, also known as The Lady Who Tries Not to Leave Her House (TLWTNTLHH). Write to Dear Auntie So Shall at thedailypoophet at gmail dot com **